Denying the physical pleasure of orgasm does not make you spiritual. But, enjoying orgasms, you forget yourself, thus in the formlessness of spirituality.
From Duality Hack #1.11 in Alexius’ Duality Hacks.
Does a computer become something else if you do not turn it on? No. It remains the same. And a leg is still physical even though you prevent it from participating in specific things.
If you plant it among carrots, will a flower seed become a carrot seed? No, it is impossible. And a hard penis does not become spiritual when you withhold ejaculation via tantra sex. On the contrary, denying the body the pleasure of letting go enhances the belief in it as significant.
Trying to disassociate yourself from something enhances the belief in separation, which is the cause of suffering.
That said, there is no more than the formlessness of oneness, so being physical is as unreal as Santa Claus. However, appearing as if you are someone in a material world, the fiction of Santa is exciting – likewise the pleasures of sex, so why not give it your best shot?
Since oneness is endless, there is no orgasm without it. Consequently, it should not be stopped but enjoyed as a positive confirmation of that which is One.
Sex is like glimpses of Enlightenment
When you pursue the desire for sex in a tangible and horny way, the physical thrill of an orgasm is incredible. Especially because when extended by the empty breath, the whole body quivers joyfully. So, you feel revitalised and not emptied. Whether the sexual desire is triggered by fantasy or something perceived as real is unimportant. Everything experienced is make-believe.
Read about the empty breath in Duality Hack #9.1-10 and glimpses of Enlightenment in Duality Hack 11.1.
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