The world is in the eye of the beholder, so you see what you have. Therefore, if the world makes you feel unwanted, you have no love for yourself.  

From Duality Hack #1.9 in Alexius’ Duality Hacks.

You cannot change parts of a movie to suit your taste. But you can change your psychological approach to them, whether they happen in the present or the past. The same applies to the world where you believe in being. Any event, including past ones, can make you happy if you choose the appropriate perception.

So, if the world does not make you feel groovy, you change your perception of it to feel fabulous. But since the world is in the eye of the beholder, you can also do it the other way around, namely, change your perception of yourself to feel fabulous. Thus, having the world reflect you is funky

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How you perceive the response from others depends on how you judge them. If you have deemed them annoying, you perceive their response as upsetting. Therefore, if you do not want to feel disturbed by them, you either change your judgement of them or your perception of their response to see them as peaceful. And since you can only recognise what you have in yourself, you acknowledge you are friendly.

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What you give comes back to you – not in another lifetime, but at the exact moment you give it. That is not to be understood physically, as if you give money, you get money. It is the intention behind giving money that returns immediately. The sense of giving and receiving happens in yourself. So if you give money out of love, you feel loved, but if it is out of pity, you feel sad. Ergo, when you know you get what you give, psychologically, you see you get what you ask for.

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You cannot recognise something you do not know, so what you see is what you have. Therefore, if you have love, everybody looks lovely, and you feel loved regardless of their response. However, that does not mean you must love everything they do or say. For example, Alexius dislikes his cats bringing home half-dead lizards and mice. Still, their behaviour does not change his love for them.

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If you want the world to respond in the way that you define lovingly, your self-hatred is exposed when you do not get the expected response. However, instead of acknowledging that the world is in the eye of the beholder, most people blame others for being rude.

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When you blame your parents, society or something else for your conditioning, you become a victim of others. But you are not a victim of your parents, the deep state, digital tracing, climate changes, capitalism, 5G, or anything else. On the contrary, you have chosen to be conditioned by the world to appear innocent. Hence, the way you see the world justifies everything you do, and you can behave in ways that otherwise would be unacceptable.

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The present is perceived as good enough when you feel complete. But if you feel uncertain about yourself, nothing is good enough. In other words, your response to the present moment reveals nothing about that but yourself.

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That the world is in the eye of the beholder does not mean you are in charge of what happens in the world but how you perceive it.

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Whether you are aware of it or not, you always give what you have. So, if something you provide results in getting hate, that is what you have. No worries, acknowledging your hatred makes you feel loved because love and hate are not opposites but rather interconnected, like two sides of a coin. See Duality Hack #8.1-9.

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Do not hold back your judgments. They reveal what you need to see in yourself to feel complete in a world of duality. For example, if you perceive the shit you see in others as yours, it can define your purity.. See Duality Hack #8.1-9.

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You can only send love to somebody if you believe in separation, and since that is the cause of suffering, misery is what you send. However, it does not reach anybody but you because you immediately feel what you are giving. Thankfully, since every feeling is twofold and misery is paired with pleasure, you feel delighted by acknowledging your misery.