Willingness not to exclude but to include undoes the belief in a world where there seems to be more than one

Updated May 10, 2022

The more inclusive you are, the less the apparent difference between inside and outside appears to make a difference. Consequently, there is no experience of a world outside of you – neither inside because, without an outside, there is no inside. In other words, when not excluding thoughts and feelings by justifying them with a world perceived to be outside of you, the fantasy of being someone in a world where there seems to be more than one is over. However, this does not mean that it is replaced by that which is One because there never was and never will be more than oneness. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

PART 1:
When we believe to be somebody definitive, we establish this constantly by telling stories where we are the main character making everything right. Or we refer to stories of others in which we appear to make a difference.

The complete inclusion of thoughts and feelings cancels out the idea of within and without. Thus there is no difference to hide the formlessness of oneness.

The conclusion is not that you must stop telling stories about your achievements if you want the bliss of being nobody. On the contrary, Alexius’ Duality Hacks are not about stopping or avoiding something, as that involves exclusion and thus enhances the belief in being definitive. Neither are they about transforming sex or anything else into something higher but including everything as it appears to be because that leaves nothing to define you as someone definitive.

Trying to manifest yourself as someone definitive in a world where there seems to be more than one is like trying to be someone substantial in a dream. It is not possible because there is nothing in it. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

However, in most cases, we are not willing to be nobody. Thus we persist in being somebody definitive by excluding from our personality whatever it takes to make a difference for our kids, pets, or work associates, for example. No worries. If you acknowledge that you are unwilling to include everything, you include the moment as it is, thus on the path of inclusiveness. See also A perfect moment does not require learning – only inclusion.

Although this is a path of peace, it may not seem so, at first, because when you include everything., there is nothing to hope for. It feels pretty depressing until you realise that without hope, there is nothing to fear – and without it, there is peace. Check out these articles about the freedom from hope: What and where you believe to be is non-existing, and When you know there is nothing to hope for, there is nothing to hide that which is One.

Be aware that this explanation and the others in Alexius’ Duality Hacks are inaccurate because it is not explainable why you believe to be someone definitive. It is impossible to be that because that which is One is formless and therefore endless. See also Nobody is loved in that which is One.

INTERLUDE:
Using Alexius’ Duality Hacks is not like using drugs to expand the consciousness with LSD, for example. They do not increase anything. Nor do they improve something. Instead, they undo the belief that you are someone definitive.

In other words, no reason to change your name, clothes or anything else. Nor you do not have to think positive, become vegan or stop being it. Everything in a world where there seems to be more than one is equally illusionary. Fortunately, Alexius’ Duality Hacks can use any illusion to undo the belief that it is real.

Even though this pic is not the real thing but a simulation of people on the beach, and even though the simulation is twisted it is a confirmation of what is simulated, because without it the simulation would not be possible.

Even though this image is not the real thing but a twisted simulation of people on the beach, it confirms what it simulates because, without it, the twisted simulation would not be possible. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

PART 2:
You cannot remain as someone definitive in a world defined by time and space without excluding something specific from your personality because it is defined by what you exclude. For example, if you do not like feeling inferior, you exclude it by justifying it with the world perceived outside of you. Hence the flaws of an external world seem to define you as superior.

If you lose your self-control and express the flaws, that are supposed to define somebody else, you claim you were not yourself and that somebody else made you do it. In this way your superiority is ensured.

However, since life is all-inclusive, you have excluded yourself from it. Hence everything excluded must be included if you want to undo that. Nevertheless, you are probably not willing to do this. No worries. Being willing to accept that, your unwillingness becomes a step towards willingness. But not even this step is necessary regarding the undoing of your exclusion of life. By acknowledging that you resist life, you establish a relation to it. And since life is inclusive, you are on the track of inclusiveness.

Rage is a reminder of what you have excluded from yourself. Thus it is a confirmation of the formlessness of life, as without it you could not imagine to exclude anything.

Though there is not a single red pigment in this photo, you will probably make an image of red strawberries inside of you because your relationship with them tells you they are red. Likewise, when you have a relationship with the formlessness of life, this is what you will remember every time you experience something in a world defined by time and space, regardless of how it appears to be. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

Even if you have excluded yourself from the formlessness of life, you have not lost it because, without it, you could not imagine being separated from it as someone definitive in a world defined by time and space. So whether you seem to be happy or sad, calm or upset, well or sick, mundane or spiritual, it is a confirmation of the formlessness of life. This, you sense if not focusing on your appearance, because then it will not seem to hide what it confirms.

And so there is no reason to blame others for how they appear to be, but neither to stop blaming them or be guilty about judging them, because whatever you do, think or feel is a reminder of the formlessness of life. See also The YOU finger and the three me fingers.

Do you see two faces or a vase in this image? The answer seems important within the reality of a world defined by time and space, as without definitions, it does not appear to exist. In reality, though, it does not matter because your electronic media neither has the space for faces nor a vase. It is an illusion symbolising something that is not there. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

This does not mean that there is life in the world where you experience to be. Life is that which is One, and as it takes more than one to experience something, everything experienced is lifeless. But it means that even though the formlessness of life is not in what and where you appear to be, it is empowering your experience of it – just like electricity is not in the article you read, although it empowers the electronic media displaying it.

Therefore, as all your experiences symbolise the life empowering them, it is not a matter of avoiding something. See hack #2.1 Everything experienced is a symbol of life. Pain, frustration, jealousy, death, for example, confirms life just as much as love and other so-called positive experiences.

PART 3:
Since it takes more than one to realise something, it is impossible to realise that what is you is no different from that which is One. Yet, it is possible to realise it is impossible to be and have more than oneness since it is formless, therefore endless.

No matter how much more you appear to become and have in a world where there seems to be more than one, you are bound to lose it. Hence you actually have nothing but the fear of losing everything.

You have nothing to lose in the formlessness of oneness because it takes more than one to have something. Hence there is nothing to fear. This fearlessness is not accomplished by avoiding being or having more in a world where there seems to be more than one. It is just another way of being and having more.

But being indifferent to what you appear to be and have, there is nobody being or having something. Thus becoming and getting more in a world where there seems to be more than one can be enjoyed without the fear of losing it. You become indifferent to appearances when not being exclusive and thus inclusive because that leaves nothing to define you as someone.

APPENDIX:
Oneness is formless and therefore endless, so a world where there seems to be more than one is a fantasy. It is founded on the wish to be and have more than that which is One, which is carried out by imagining it is possible to fragment oneness into opposites, for example, good and bad, right and wrong, light and dark.

So if you consider yourself and like-minded ones to be the good ones and others the bad ones, you are enhancing the belief that oneness can be divided, thus making it appear as life comes from separation and not oneness.

When two sides of a contrast – for example positivity and negativity – are neither judged as good or bad, their apparent difference is not perceived to make a difference. Hence a world where there seems to be more than one appears so bland, that its lifelessness is exposed.

But if you consider good and bad to be equal, the two sides of this contrast cancel out each other, which means you, the like-minded ones and others are non-definable. Thus there is nothing to acknowledge the belief in separation. And without it, there is no foundation for experiencing a world where there seems to be more than one.


NOTE: This article about willingness, which is part of hack #3.2 Inclusiveness is freedom is an appendix to the article Inclusiveness is completeness – and that is pure joy.