Holding back ejaculation is just another material manifestation – but without the physical thrill of it

Updated November 28, 2022

No matter if you call it love or sex,those emotions will have aphysical manifestation.

Whether you call it love or sex, those emotions are physically expressed in a material world. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

Does a computer become something else if you do not turn it on? No. It remains the same. And a leg, for example, remains physical even though you do not use it.

Trying to change or transcend something enhances the the belief that it is possible to be and have more than that which is One.

If you plant it among carrots, will a flower seed become a carrot seed? No, you fool yourself. And so you do if you believe a hard penis will become spiritual when you withhold the ejaculation via tantra sex, for example. On the contrary, denying the body the pleasure of letting go enhance the belief in physicality as significant. Read more about tantra in To welcome the peace of oneness.

Besides, it is only in a world where there seems to be more than one that transformation is possible. And such a world is an illusion because spirituality is the formlessness of oneness, thus endless, so there is no more than that which is One. In other words, changes enhance the belief that there is more than that which is One.

Since spirituality is formless, it is endless. Consequently, you are either spiritual or nothing. The latter is the case if you believe in having a shape. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

If you do not believe in being someone definitive, you have no need to be changed or transformed. Nor to stop yourself from the thrill of having an orgasm. Although appearing physical is as unreal as being Santa Claus, it feels exciting pretending to be physical (read more about that here).

In the framework of pretending to be physical, the nature of physics is that the sun makes you warm, and water makes you wet. No degree of personal control can change that. Nor can it alter physical needs. And since nobody has forced you into a physical appearance, it is evident that you want to experience it. So why not give it your best shot?

Sex is an essential motivation for believing that it is possible to be and have more than that which is One. And since oneness is endless, the illusion of more than one depends on it. Thus an orgasm should not be stopped but enjoyed as a positive confirmation of that which is One.

When you pursue the desire for sex in a tangible and horny way, the physical thrill of an orgasm is incredible. Especially because it is extended by the empty breath that makes the whole body quiver with joy. Hence you feel revitalised and not emptied after ejaculation. If the sexual desire is triggered by fantasy or something perceived as real does not matter. It is all make-believe. Read more about the empty breath in hack #5.2 The empty breath and the bliss of nothing.

NOTE: This article is part of hack #1.2 You cannot change anything but your perception of it.