Holding back ejaculation is just another material manifestation – but without the physical thrill of it

Updated August 21, 2022

No matter if you call it love or sex,those emotions will have aphysical manifestation.

Whether you call it love or sex, those emotions are physically expressed in a material world. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

Does a computer become something else when you do not turn it on? No. It remains the same. And a leg, for example, remains physical even though you do not use it.

Trying to change or transcend something enhances the the belief that it is possible to be and have more than that which is One.

Will a flower seed become a carrot seed if you plant it among carrots? No, you are fooling yourself. And so you do if you believe a hard penis becomes spiritual when you withhold the ejaculation. On the contrary, by using tantra sex, for example, to deny the body the pleasure of letting go, you enhance the belief that physicality is something and spirituality is nothing.

Besides, it is only in a world where there seems to be more than one that transformation is possible. And such a world is an illusion because spirituality is oneness which is formless, thus endless, so there is no more than that which is one. In other words, changes seem to establish the fantasy of a world where there seems to be more than one as real and that which is One as unreal. Read more about tantra in To welcome the peace of oneness.

Since spirituality is formless, it is endless. Consequently, you are either spiritual or nothing. The latter is the case if you appear to have a shape. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

If you do not believe in being someone in a physical world, you do not want to change, transcend or transform anything there. Nor to stop yourself from the thrill of having a physical orgasm. Although it is as unreal as Santa Claus brings presents to all the good children, it feels exciting pretending to be physical (read more about that here).

In the framework of pretending that it is the nature of physics that the sun makes you warm, and water makes you wet. No degree of personal control can change that. Nor can it alter physical needs. And since nobody has forced you into a physical appearance, it is evident that you want to go for it. So why not give it your best shot?

Sex is an essential motivation for believing that it is possible to be and have more than that which is One. And since oneness is endless, the illusion of more than one depends on it. Thus an orgasm should not be stopped but enjoyed as a positive confirmation of oneness.

When you pursue your desire for sex in a tangible and horny way, the physical thrill of an orgasm is incredible. Especially because it is extended by the empty breath that makes the whole body quiver with joy. Hence you feel revitalised and not emptied after ejaculation. If your desire is triggered by fantasy or something perceived as real does not matter. It is all make-believe. Read more about the empty breath in hack #5.2 The empty breath and the bliss of nothing.

NOTE: This article is part of hack #1.2 You cannot change anything but your perception of it.